Having been married for a mere one year, from time to time I get bombarded by soalan "Cepu Emas" from relatives and friends about this...
"Ada sudah?" Hmm...
"Belum lagi?" Hmm...
"Bila lagi?" Hmm...
"Napa belum ada lagi? Jangan tunggu lama-lama oh" Hmm...
"Mesti cepat-cepat, your biological clock is ticking!" Hmm...
All these five questions I can ignore or buat muka bodoh jer until one somebody said this to me,
"Takkanlah lepas setahun belum ada lagi, mesti you yang ada problem ni!"
Hello? who is he/she to say that to me? Gerammmm tau...Even if I ada problem conceiving, I don't think so it's any of his/her business! The funny part is, that he/she are not even close to me, they are just friends or distant relatives! Ayoyo! Fine, I can't escape from being bombarded by this type of questions but sometimes I wish they just stop asking me this sort of questions, because if it happens then it happens; I will definitely broadcast to everybody!
God knows how I wanted to be a mommy and give cute grandchildren for my parents but if it doesn't happen yet, God must have His own reason, right? Maybe He wants us to spend time being together or make ourself financially stable (hehe..credit card banyak lagi belum settle woi!) because once the lil one is here, it won't be the same anymore. So that's why, hubby and I just go with the flow...and so far we are happy on how things are:-) Shouldn't other people be happy for us too?
ooo.. the ever so popular question to the married but still childless wife.. hmm.. Okay lagi you only 1 year.. Me? I have to jawap this questions coming to 4 years sudah.. bikin geram jgk oo.. if it were up to me, I'll have at least 4 kids now.. haha.. tapi apa buli buatkan.. mcm you said, God must have His own reason or plan for us kan? sabar jak la farah.. :)
ReplyDeleteItulah bah! walau barusatu tahun pun dorang mo juga kasih jadi isu, so I can really emphatize with you. Who knows one day, dapat rezeki, kan? In the meantime...we just enjoy our life:)
ReplyDelete