Marley & Me

I went to see Marley & Me this afternoon. At first when a close friend of mine said better keep a pack of tissue with me, I just laughed it off. Little did I know that the movie taught me some important points in life. You see, despite the dogs neuratic and unbearable characters, he stood up with the family from the beginning until the end.

No, I'm not going to give the spoiler here, because I want you to watch it yourself. It's a good movie because I learnt something there and I think others will too! "A true friend is someone who stood by you through thick and thin; simple fact but very few friends can do that". Grogan found that with Marley. I cried, it's just heart breaking.

Ps. Actually, the main reason I wanted to watch this movie is because I am a huge fan of Jennifer Anniston...sekali, memang syiok pun cerita dia. I am thinking of getting the book, it's based on true story, you know? Oh! Btw, I couldn't believe Jennifer Anniston is actually 40 years old!Checkout her hot bod! Look at her biceps!

Happy Birthday to Me!

Today I am 31 years old, Happy Birthday to Me! Normally, on my birthday I will take the day off, because I believe no one should work on his/her birthday. Traditionally, on my birthday I will pamper myself, just me spending time with myself, like I will go for facial, spa, manicure & pedicure or salon for my hair treatment and enjoy well-wishers from family and close friends:-) That was my tradition since yesteryears but this year it's different.

Today instead of pampering myself, I was busy preparing for a function and was busy running around since last week. Anyway, despite pressure and stress, the function turns out to be well, at least in my opinionlah. At first we were worried if the function didn't have gather enough crowd, luckily the hall was overflowed with peoples from entah mana-mana (Thank God!) and suddenly, all the full ministers came out of nowhere; eventhough earlier their office RSVP regret not attending.

Overall I am happy today altough I have to go work on my birthday because I managed to get through and let my first baby (1st event) sail through; it's not perfect yet there is so much to learn. Especially on patience and grace just like my immediate boss; that is something I have to learn. After this I am going to go to salon and wash my hair, then hopefull tonight my hubby will bring me out for good dinner, he better be! After all this hard work for the past weeks!hehe...

One last note, I am thankful I am still here today and I am surrounded by family and friends who cares for me. I enjoy my work; despite the pressure, stress and you know what? that makes it even more challenging! I love it! while I am here, I hope to learn as much as I can. Alhamdullilah, Allah s.w.t is Maha Berkuasa, I couldn't ask for more. I am thankful to Allah. You know what? I have the feeling this is going to be a great year for me! :-)

Popular questions...

Having been married for a mere one year, from time to time I get bombarded by soalan "Cepu Emas" from relatives and friends about this...

"Ada sudah?" Hmm...

"Belum lagi?" Hmm...

"Bila lagi?" Hmm...

"Napa belum ada lagi? Jangan tunggu lama-lama oh" Hmm...

"Mesti cepat-cepat, your biological clock is ticking!" Hmm...

All these five questions I can ignore or buat muka bodoh jer until one somebody said this to me,

"Takkanlah lepas setahun belum ada lagi, mesti you yang ada problem ni!"

Hello? who is he/she to say that to me? Gerammmm tau...Even if I ada problem conceiving, I don't think so it's any of his/her business! The funny part is, that he/she are not even close to me, they are just friends or distant relatives! Ayoyo! Fine, I can't escape from being bombarded by this type of questions but sometimes I wish they just stop asking me this sort of questions, because if it happens then it happens; I will definitely broadcast to everybody!

God knows how I wanted to be a mommy and give cute grandchildren for my parents but if it doesn't happen yet, God must have His own reason, right? Maybe He wants us to spend time being together or make ourself financially stable (hehe..credit card banyak lagi belum settle woi!) because once the lil one is here, it won't be the same anymore. So that's why, hubby and I just go with the flow...and so far we are happy on how things are:-) Shouldn't other people be happy for us too?